This is one of my favourite TED talks.Ta iLopez says: Everybody wants the good life, but not everybody is willing to toughen up. He also says; Find a mentor. They are the shortcut of that you want to avoid doing it the hard way. whether you are old or young, there is always someone you can learn from.
He leaves us with 4 things to remember: Be humble, Persevere, Read more, Toughen Up!